Word Scrubbing: An Exercise in Making People Invisible

Word scrubbing is the practice of erasing language that points to particular people or things. Word scrubbing makes a whole list of vulnerable people invisible. According to Elizabeth Power, M.Ed., Adjunct Instructor, Georgetown University Medical Center and founder of The Trauma Informed Academy, the following are words that can trigger additional scrutiny in a grant application or request for program funding from the Federal Government:

  • Activist, activism, advocate, advocacy, background, barrier, barriers, biased, bias, BIPOC, Black and Latinx
  • Community diversity, community equity, cultural differences, cultural heritage, culturally responsive
  • Disabilities, discrimination, discriminatory, diversified, diversity
  • Enhancing, equality, equal opportunity, equitable, ethnicity, excluded
  • Female, fostering, gender, groups, hate speech, Hispanic minority, historically, implicit bias
  • Inclusion, inclusive, increase, indigenous community, inequalities, inequity, institutional
  • Justice, LGBTQ, marginalize, minorities, multicultural, polarization, political, privilege, prejudice, promoting
  • Race, racial, sense of belonging, sexual preferences, social justice, sociocultural, socioeconomic, status, status, stereotype
  • Trauma, underappreciated, underrepresented, underserved, victims, women

This list includes most of the people Jesus spent his life reaching out to, loving and ministering to.

Jesus fed the hungry, made the blind see, cared for the poor and included everyone in the circle of God’s concern and love.

By removing these words from the lexicon of public programming and grant funding, the populations represented behind these words are essentially removed from public view. They are “disappeared” like political dissidents in authoritarian regimes. It also ensures that these populations will continue to be underserved and underrepresented in the public arena.

By erasing these words, the US is rewinding the clock at least 50 years to a time when the differently abled, wounded, gender divergent, and abused, to name just a few, were routinely excluded from resources, programs and funding that helped heal and empower them. Removing funding for these groups also isolates them from the mainstream of human life by taking away resources they need to function in society.

Many of Jesus’ miracles were as much about restoring people to their community as they were about healing physical maladies. For instance, in biblical times, women who were menstruating were considered ritually unclean and had to absent themselves from their community. In the story from Luke 8, a woman with an issue of blood was perpetually isolated from her community. When she was healed, not only was her physical health restored, she also was able to rejoin her community.

This word scrubbing policy directive in our time is a move toward a historically unkind and limiting time in the lives of many people. It is despicable that this is now public policy for funding initiatives. It begs the question, what kind of programs will be funded? Summer camp for blond hair, blued eyed rich kids from the suburbs? Private limo transportation for Buffy and Muffy to their piano lessons?

It is yet another of the occupant and his cronies’ fly by night slash and burn public policy initiatives that stay under the radar.  If the day’s news hasn’t given you reason to contact your legislators, this is it. If we stay silent, the populations that are being “disappeared” don’t have a chance.

It’s Okay to Not Be Okay

Sometimes there is just nothing happy about the holidays. All the hustle and bustle are exhausting. For reasons that are uniquely our own, our heart isn’t in it.

Not too many people will tell you this, so hear it here. It’s okay to not be okay. It’s okay for the sadness that aches in your soul to leak out of your eyes. It’s okay for the loneliness that lives in every pore of your body to rub off onto the world around you. It’s okay for the heaviness of your heart to weigh you down so you can hardly move. It’s okay to not put on a happy face to make the people around you feel better.

It’s all called being human and living with heartbreak.

Heartbreak doesn’t go on holiday just because it is the holidays. It never takes a break. In fact, deep aches and sadnesses can feel even greater at this time of the year. We measure the distance between where we are and where the rest of the world seems to be and it is an insurmountable number of light years.

So, cut yourself some slack. Honor where you are and know you are doing the best you can. Choose carefully the activities you will participate in and the places you will go. Seek out places where you will be accepted for where you are. People who love you will not see you as a downer. They will have compassion for your pain and receive you as you are. You deserve nothing less.

The cultural celebration of Christmas is a sham. The pressure to buy things we can’t afford for people who already have too much is overwhelming. The expectation of a happy face and joyful spirit is sometimes just too much to ask. Living up to cultural expectations is not a requirement.

The story we celebrate as people of faith is a tale of good news that came to the last, the least and the lost. Mary and Joseph were refugees, yet they were chosen to bring the message of God’s unshakeable love into the world. The shepherds were social outcasts because they were dirty and smelled like sheep. The Wise Ones were in search of something different than they had found in their lives to that point. A corrupt leader was threatened because he was scared of losing his power.

The message of the Incarnation is that God comes to us as we are in the moment. We need not pretend to be anything other than who we are. We need not pretend that we are in a different place than we are. The message of the Incarnation is that what is lowly is lifted up, what is broken is made whole and what is downtrodden finds rest.

For this year, if the Christmas game isn’t one you want to play, it’s okay. If you are running short on Ho Ho Ho and feeling more like Boo Hoo Hoo, it’s okay. Don’t let anyone guilt on you saying you are wallowing or being a bah humbug.  Instead, know there are countless people feeling just like you. Though you may feel alone or be physically alone, there are many people who walk the same path.

Pretending takes too much energy. Just be who you are. Just be where you are. I am standing beside you in love and with encouragement. You got this.